FreeSpiritSingles Dating Wizard Survey You can click on one or more answers in each of the questions below.Feel free to fill in your own answer to a question with "other", as it could give a more exact answer.You can undo any answer by clicking on the answer again.You can skip any question you don't wish to answer.Click on the "Save and submit your answers" button at the bottom of the page when you are done with the survey to save your answers and to get by email the A.I. Dating Wizard's response to the answers you selected (you may need to check your spam folder if it's not in your email Inbox). Successful actions to help pull In your dream How much is dating a game to you? I tend to keep it playful and fun I enjoy dating most of the time It can be a bit stressful sometimes It tends to get serious Other Are you creating new friends while dating? Yes, I believe that every meaningful connection has value, even if it doesn't turn romantic Sometimes. The line between friend and partner can be thin, and not every spark needs to catch fire Rarely. If it doesn't work out romantically, I usually move on No, and I prefer it that way - for me, dating is a focused process. I'm not seeking expansion of my social circle Other Do you have an ideal scene for your relationship? Yes - I have my ideal scene well defined and written down Absolutely - I imagine it being a certain way I do, but it's flexible and changes from time to time Not exactly - I tend to be really busy, and it changes from time to time Other Do you have your goals well defined in life? Yes - my goals are well defined and written down Mostly - I have a direction, even if the destination shifts Somewhat, but the specifics are still evolving Not currently Other Do you make room for your partner? Yes - there's a space in my heart and where I live ready for them I try to - my calendar has ''Quality Time'' for my dream blocked out with sparkles Sometimes - I'm learning how to integrate my life and space with someone else Not always - I've realized I need to create more space for love to flourish there Other How much do you outflow, to help pull in your dream? A lot - I spread my charm everywhere I outflow when I can - my schedule is busy and I don't always have the time Sometimes - when I do, I release just enough magic to intrigue here and there No very much Other Do you promote yourself with a really good photo of yourself? Yes - I'm basically my own hype team Usually - I update pics when my hair looks great or when I've found a friend to take a photo of me Sometimes - my last upload was technically pre-pandemic... Not really - I don't look my best for some reason in photos, I look much better in person Other Have you ever surveyed the opposite sex to find out more about them and as a way to promote yourself? Yes - I've had real conversations to understand what others value I've tried - not through formal surveys, but through intentional dialogue and observation Not directly - I've been pretty busy to do that No, but I see the value in it Other Dating and the first date Do you like the first date to be a formal or informal activity? I prefer informal dates - they feel more relaxed and natural I prefer formal settings Depends on the person and the vibe - we can decide together I’m up for anything as long as there's good conversation and chemistry Other What are things you don't like, when going on a date? When someone is constantly on their phone Awkward silences that feel forced When the person talks only about themselves When there's no clear plan and everything feels disorganized Other What do you like to do most when going on a date? Sharing a meal and there's great communication Doing something fun that we both enjoy Exploring new places like a museum or art gallery Grabbing a coffee and taking a walk - simple and low pressure Other Who you date If you were to give advice with regard to relationships to someone of the opposite sex, what would it be? Listen without trying to fix - sometimes, just being there for them matters more than solutions Be honest, but be kind - directness is great, as long as it's wrapped in respect Don’t underestimate the little things - affection, appreciation, and showing up consistently go a long way Thinking that we’re all the same when there’s a huge range of emotional depth, priorities, and communication styles - we’re not one-size-fits-all Other Do you have any pet-peeves (minor annoyances) about the opposite sex, etc? When they assume we can read their minds - clear and open communication solves so much When one gets quiet and I have to pull teeth to get them to open up - I wish they’d just talk it through Trying to win every argument instead of trying to understand - it’s not a competition When they generalize - not all of us fit the stereotype, and being lumped into one is frustrating Other Past relationships Have you ever regretted ending a relationship? No, I trust my choices Yes, sometimes Not sure, I avoid thinking about it Yes, very much so Other Would you say your last relationship ended mutually? Yes, with mutual respect Somewhat mutual Not really No, it was very one-sided or hurtful Other Are there past relationships you still feel emotionally tied to? No, I've fully moved on Somewhat - I've done a lot of work Yes, there's lingering emotion Definitely - it still weighs on me Other Do you ever worry you'll repeat past mistakes in love? Rarely - I've learned and grown Sometimes - it's in the back of my mind Often - I see patterns repeating Constantly - it's hard to break cycles Other Post-COVID dating mindset Has COVID affected your belief in relationships? Not really - I still believe It shook my confidence I'm still unsure what I think It made me pull away from connection Other How did social distancing affect your dating life? I adapted quickly It slowed things down I stopped dating altogether I felt very alone and disconnected Other Are you finding it harder to meet people now than before COVID? No, I'm doing okay A little harder Much harder Yes, almost impossible Other Online dating experience What has been your general experience with online dating? Positive - I've met great people Mixed - some good, some bad Disappointing or discouraging It's been more disappointing than rewarding Other What's your biggest turnoff when online dating? Shallow interactions or being ignored People who don't have up-to-date photos of themselves Too much effort for too little return None - I actually like the process Other What do you like best about online dating? I can reach whenever I am free - I can do it on my own time There's a lot more people to check out - compared to bars, events, etc. I know that everyone is single and looking It's like going into a candy store - lots to see and check out Other Difficulties encountered in dating How easy is it for you to date? Pretty easy - I enjoy meeting new people It’s okay, but it takes effort to find a good match It’s been challenging and sometimes discouraging I struggle with putting myself out there Other What is keeping you from having more fun dating? I'm still healing from past relationship baggage Nothing - I'm having fun dating! I'm nervous about putting myself out there again Dating feels like a chore more than an adventure Other What is the most frustrating part of dating? Mixed signals and lack of clear communication Getting ignored after things seemed to go well Feeling like I have to “perform†instead of connect Not getting responses to my reaches Getting rejected Other What challenges have you faced in dating? Lack of time or opportunity Thinking I am too old or out of place Needing my body to be in better shape Difficulty finding people who would be compatible to me Other How do you handle rejections? I turn every “no†into motivation to find the one who is really right for me I look at what I can learn from it - about myself, my approach, or the kind of connection I truly want I know not everyone will align, and that's not necessarily a reflection of my worth With difficulty - some rejections hit deeper than others Other The fun part of dating What is your favorite part of dating? The possibility of finding ''the one'' Getting to know new people and hearing their stories The excitement of potential and new connections Fun shared experiences, like trying new restaurants Discovering more about myself through each interaction Other What would make dating more fun for you? More genuine, meaningful 2-way communication Better responses to my reaches Better matches that align with my goals and purposes More people who live closer to me to choose from Other Ideal relationship What do you think is your biggest strength in a relationship? High affinity, reality and communication Communication Willingness to grow and expand I'm unsure Other What quality do you most admire in a potential partner? Loyalty and integrity Emotional warmth and support Open-mindedness and curiosity Independence and resilience Other What does your dream relationship look like? Growing a family together Spiritual and emotional connection Daily companionship and support Freedom and love without pressure Other How would your life change if you found your dream? I'd feel more supported and spiritually fulfilled It would bring peace and clarity to my life I'd have someone to build a future with I'd finally feel like I'm not alone in my journey anymore Other Spiritual connections Do certain connections feel mysteriously powerful? Yes - it's like a magnetic pull, like you're meant to be in each other's lives for a reason, even if it's not immediately clear Definitely - some connections hit with a force that doesn't match logic - there's just an intensity you can't explain away I've had friendships and relationships where the bond feels almost fated - like something bigger is at work Occasionally - I try not to read too much into it, but I do notice when someone just ‘clicks' with me on a deep level Other Your Name Your Email Save and submit your answers
